When
people talk about relationships I’m getting really confused. Some people get
into a relation after some days since they first met, others – after a long
friendly period together. But a lot of us just put people they like into friend
zone, because we are looking for a strong body, big boobs or great penis. I
just don’t understand: it's not a real relationship based on friendship and on
the possibility to spend the time together in a really pleasant way? What is
the difference between a pair and good friends (excepting sex)?
I
think that’s a good start point for a social debate and I would like to start
with my opinion. When I was 16, I was looking for taller guys with great faces
wishing about a date with this kind of dolls and I had it! The result was a big
deception, because when you don’t have what to talk about with this person,
when he can’t surprise you and take you into new interesting topics,
when his eyes talk about: hey honey, let’s go to the bed, but not about: hey,
you know, I like you, let’s have cool adventures together, after that we can
wake up together… no point to involve yourself in this kind of relation. I
think that the better boyfriend or girlfriend is that person, about you can
say: he/she is my best friend!
Now
I’m 19, really close to 20, I don’t have too much experience with “pair life”,
but maybe because of that I was able to make a lot of observations being able
to make the difference between a doll and a man/woman, even if I err as
everybody does. Of course you can’t define how real men or women are, because
every person has personal standarts. But, everyone is looking for 3 general
qualities: honesty, sense of humor and generosity. I would say that’s the
perfect description of our best friend! So, maybe we should ask ourselves and
think before banishing someone into the FRIEND ZONE…
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