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I don't believe in God, but I'm afraid of him

I have no religion, I don’t believe in God… I think we are religious because we are too lazy to investigate things about our life, we are too lazy to explain what is happening with us. We don’t want to accept that we made “life rules” for us, for humanity, not for God. We made them just to prevent the chaos in our world, because people without any rule are able to get too crazy and too irresponsible. Or maybe someone made these rules just to manipulate us, history is full of surprises. In my vision, God is the ideal human being, it’s our imaginary leader which makes us not feel alone, too not get lost in time and in our actions.

We say: I believe in God, because I felt him, I know he exists, he helped me, I had weird stuff in my life that I can not explain, God made that… But, what if this is just how our brain works? In our brain there are approximately 20 billion nerve cells and don’t you think he is able to make us feel weird or have paranormal visions sometime?! Our body is a really complex system which can have functional disorders in different ways, with different signs. There are a lot of external factors able to influence the normal function of our body: solar energy, weather phenomena, pollutants, etc etc etc. Without science like medicine, this world could be just a cemetery.

If we want something really hard, we should work in order to make that real, which means we constrain our actions. If we believe really hard in something, we make our brain think in this way, we program it and we get the result back: the desired picture, the desired feeling. Everything depends on how we see, interpret our situation and how involved are we in this.

         I don’t believe in God, but I’m afraid of him, because in his name people can do foolish stuff. Sometimes I compare in my head those too religious people with some employees trying to please their boss, but not their peers, not themselves. If you help someone, that’s because God said to do that… Why? Shouldn’t that be your decision? You help someone because you can, because YOU want to do that. YOU are your God…And if you make a decision, it’s your decision, your life, your brain…

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How to lose a woman in 7 days (pamphlet)

Day 1: INDIFFERENCE. After a night together, you leave her place without embracing or telling something sweet. Afterwards, you don't call her at all or answer to any messages. Be cold! Right, you are doing right! Keep the distance and be cold, because women get upset but you shouldn't care. You are a "man" and you can not say directly your opinions, you just disappear.
Day 2: KEEP THE POSITION. Of course you are not an asshole and you will call her the next day: "Hey, sweetie, I saw your messages, thank you, I was busy. I will call you later.Bye". Obviously, you don't make that call.
Day 3: ROMANTICISM. Write her a message and say how much you need her to come to your place. Definitely she will come and that is what she is going to see: bunches of empty beer cups, pizza boxes, socks on the table and floor, cigarette smoke and you watching football - just love in the air.
Day 4: LOVE. You go out to get wasted with your friends and after midnight you call her, because you feel the need to see her and the flames of love are burning inside of you. Such lovely, much drunk! But wait...this is not the happy end already! Next day = big hangover = no clues about yesterday night!
Day 5: PERFECT WOMAN. As you are hanging out together, you compliment other women and don't lose any moment to tell her about your favorite model making at the same time dirty and  perverted jokes. Cool story bro'! Women like so much to listen your sexual fantasies when you are outdoors.
Day 6: DINNER. You invited her for a dinner at 8 pm. Remember: women start to prepare at least one hour before the event. You will call her at 7:30, when she will be already dressed and perfumed: "Sweetie, tonight I should go out with my job mates. I completely forgot that we have a job-party." Yeah, of course you forgot and of course you can not make any exception!
Day 7: BRACE YOURSELF! You lost her! The good side: you will not waste too many resources anymore! :D And, yeah...now you can have a relationship with your mates! Good job :* :*

(Thank you, Cristina Mirza :* )

Relationship or Friend zone?!

         

              When people talk about relationships I’m getting really confused. Some people get into a relation after some days since they first met, others – after a long friendly period together. But a lot of us just put people they like into friend zone, because we are looking for a strong body, big boobs or great penis. I just don’t understand: it's not a real relationship based on friendship and on the possibility to spend the time together in a really pleasant way? What is the difference between a pair and good friends (excepting sex)?

              I think that’s a good start point for a social debate and I would like to start with my opinion. When I was 16, I was looking for taller guys with great faces wishing about a date with this kind of dolls and I had it! The result was a big deception, because when you don’t have what to talk about with this person, when he can’t surprise you and take you into new interesting topics, when his eyes talk about: hey honey, let’s go to the bed, but not about: hey, you know, I like you, let’s have cool adventures together, after that we can wake up together… no point to involve yourself in this kind of relation. I think that the better boyfriend or girlfriend is that person, about you can say: he/she is my best friend!

           Now I’m 19, really close to 20, I don’t have too much experience with “pair life”, but maybe because of that I was able to make a lot of observations being able to make the difference between a doll and a man/woman, even if I err as everybody does. Of course you can’t define how real men or women are, because every person has personal standarts. But, everyone is looking for 3 general qualities: honesty, sense of humor and generosity. I would say that’s the perfect description of our best friend! So, maybe we should ask ourselves and think before banishing someone into the FRIEND ZONE…

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(The Diary of an Errant)
          The human society is a real wildness, where someone is the sacrifice, someone - the hunter aaaand...a lot of people are just sacrifices with hunter faces, trying to find a place by using black roads. Who are you? Who would like you to be? I would like to be a sacrifice, because I have chances to became an hunter - Time and Experience will help me, but I am really skeptical thinking about "false faces" - is not so easy to leave an illusive world, where you are the king of an imagined nation and you indulge this haughty position. False face must hide what the false heart doth know (Macbeth).
          Also, in our century, we - the society, like to talk about "perfect woman" and "perfect man" in a "perfect relationship". Why are we doing that? Did everyone find his/her love and we are too bored to live in the reality and to accept each other? Lets be human and believe in us, lets skip this annoying games about perfectionism. Why should we search for something perfect, when this world is so amazing with all the unexpected forms and moments?! You - woman! Don't search your God in every man that you meet, don't be an empty leech or a cactus with thorns of pride, just enjoy! Dates and discussions with honest persons are awesome! But, You  - man! Oh, you like so much to play with women: This is stupid, this is ugly, this one read too much  - lets make fun of them - STOP! You never know how one of this girls can make you to not feel someone one day. Searching the PERFECT, but finding the WAR!
        Next point - phrases like: "oooh, you don't know that - you are stupid", "I am the smartest in our class, I am the best", "You are single and hot, so you are crazy"... Why in the fucking hell should I know everything about your hobbies or the information you are interested in? Maybe I am not from this world, maybe I am an alien and I know more other things that you have no idea about! If we don't have the same point of view, that doesn't make you smarter. If your days are made from drinking and studying - no hobbies to practice, no volunteering - it is that making you the best? NO! Now, about single and crazy... Do you know? I am single, because other "mature and wise" men like you think the same and because we, women, can not choose the right man. 
        We are 20-30 and we think the life is done! Yeees, we are the world, we tried everything! Emmm, sorry for disturbing, but...how about to enjoy the life? To make a family, to travel, to interact? How about to drink coffee every morning and make love, make sex with a person that you like? We have a lot of stuff to do...never stop!

O invitaţie în Iaşi

       La cei doi ani ai săi, Palas Mall, Iaşi, a devenit o întreagă "comunitate" de clădiri şi centre atractive. Aş putea spune că amplasarea, arhitectura şi evenimentele susţinute/organizate sunt ceea ce-l etichetează, luînd comparativ cu brandurile promovate/comercializate. Fiind în vizită la Palas, vei afla pentru început despre Zona de Parcare în 5 nivele, Istoricul locului, apoi şi trandurile în modă. Deci, nu pot să nu menţionez despre viteza cu care echipa Palas Mall reuşeşte să evolueze, să se manifeste şi să organizeze un complex destul de grandios pentru această zonă europeană, carpatică.
       Cu ocazia aniversării, am fost încîntată să primesc invitaţia şi să vizitez centrul Palas şi, desigur, istoricul oraş Iaşi. Deşi în cele două zile nu s-au reuşit prea multe, iar părerile nu s-au spus pînă la urmă, interacţiunea cu managerii locului a avut loc, discuţiile s-au petrecut în condiţii de la egal la egal.
      Se merită de petrecut o zi aici? Da! Pentru distracţii, divertisment, cumpărături (veţi găsi preţuri atractive şi calitate în lucruri). Nu ezitaţi să faceţi o raită şi prin locurile turistice ale oraşului.